February 26th - March 2nd Life Group Notes

Open in Prayer 

• Welcome/Introductions/Cast Vision – Remind the Life Group of the Guidelines– See bottom of this page.

•  Doing the Mission: Did anyone share Jesus or last week’s passage?  

• Does anyone have a God story? An undeniable encounter or experience with God that creates an impact or  breakthrough in your day-to-day life. These moments can be extraordinary or very humble, but always  personally powerful. 

• Opening Question: Can you remember a teacher who taught you well, or made a difference in your life? 

• Share background for the passage:  This passage shows the importance of listening to the Holy Spirit and being obedient to what He asks of you. Philip was sent to a man who was reading scripture, but not understanding what he was reading. 
• Thought/Focus: How can we make sure that we are walking in the Spirit? Why is it important? 
• Have someone read this week’s passage: Acts 8:26-37 

Discuss these questions: Go deeper as led. Remember Head, Heart, Hands. 

1. Where did the Angel tell Philip to go? (vs. 26) Why do you think he needed to go that direction?
2. Who did Philip meet on this road? (vs. 27)

3.  What kind of man was this guy who Philip met? Was he important in his own country?
4.  When Philip walked up to this man in the chariot, did Philip give a statement, or ask a            question? (vs. 30)
5.  The 2 men had a conversation about a scripture passage. What did the Eunuch ask               Philip? (vs. 34)
6.  Would you say that this conversation was intentional? How so?
7.   Have you ever felt the Spirit leading you to talk to someone about Jesus? Did you? Was       it easy?
8.  Will you listen for promptings from the Holy Spirit this week?

Next week’s passage/story: Mark 6:30-44(Choose someone to tell next week’s story.) 

• Dismiss in Prayer   
  

CONFIDENTIALITY: What is said in the group  stays in the group.
 
LISTEN: Let’s value one another during the  discussions by really listening to what is  being shared. Try to avoid thinking about  how you are going to respond or what you  are going to say next.
 
PAUSE: Allow a pause in conversation after  someone shares. Give the person sharing a  chance to finish and the group the  opportunity to consider what was just  shared before responding.

NO “CROSS TALK”: Be considerate of others  as they are sharing- no side conversations.

NO FIXING: We are not here to fix each  other. Jesus does that part. Speak truth is love, give  
encouragement, empathize,  point to Jesus.  You may share  solutions God has led you through. The  other person should never feel shame or  failure, but rather connection & hope.

NO HIJACKING of shared stories.

NO RESCUING: When people are sharing  something deeply personal, there can be a  tendency to try to make them feel better  about themselves or the situation by  providing immediate condolences. This will  often cause them to stop sharing. Resist the  temptation to rescue people.
 
SHARING: Be sensitive about the amount of time  you share.
 
SILENCE: It is important to allow silence in the  group as it provides an opportunity for someone  else to share and for members in the group to  process the topic or question being considered.

BE SELF-AWARE: Be self-aware of how you are  personally affecting the environment through your  words, actions, and non-verbal communication.
 
“I” STATEMENTS: It’s easy to talk about the issues  of others, but for our purposes, we want you to put  yourself on the table. Try to use “I” statements rather than “them”, "they", "you", “the church”, “us”, “we”, etc.
 
FIGHT FOR RELATIONSHIP: We will commit to resolve conflict  biblically. When conflict or sin issues arise between  group members, we want to make sure that  we are honoring God and each other in the way we  deal with these issues. We will fight for  relationship.  I will discuss the struggle with the person I am in conflict with first, & if not resolved, seek wise advice. The following are a few key Scriptures  in this regard (there are many others.)

• If someone sins against you: Mat. 18:15-20
• Restoring someone in sin: Gal. 6:1-5 
• Forgive a sinner: Col. 3: 12-13 
• Reconciling differences: Mat. 5:23-24, Mat. 7:1-5