May 13- May 18th Life Group Notes

May 9th, 2024
by Nancy Wiltshire

Destroying Myths about Moms

Luke 2:41-52

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Open in Prayer

Welcome/Introductions/Cast Vision – Remind the Life Group of the Guidelines– See bottom of page.

Doing the Mission: Did anyone share Jesus or last week’s passage?

Does anyone have a God story? An undeniable encounter or experience with God that creates an impact or breakthrough in your day-to-day life. These moments can be extraordinary or very humble, but always personally powerful.

Opening Question: Did you ever get lost as a child?

Share background for the passage: Every year, Jesus’ family went to Jerusalem for the Feast of the Passover.
Thought/Focus: Has your hunger for God ever been misunderstood by your family or friends?
Have someone read this week’s passage: Luke 2:41-52

Discuss these questions: Go deeper as led. Remember Head, Heart, Hands.

In this passage, why did Jesus’ family go to Jerusalem?
What do Jesus’ character traits revealed in this passage, tell us about Him?

3. How much does He seem to know about his mission?
4. How much do His parents know about His mission?
5. Why do you think Luke included this episode of Jesus’ life?
6. What do you think of Mary and Joseph’s behavior in this story?
7. Do you think that Jesus was disrespectful to his parents in this story?
8. If you turned up missing, where is the first place your family and friends would look for you?

Next week’s passage/story: TBD

Dismiss in Prayer

Life Group Guidelines

This needs to be a place where people feel comfortable opening up and sharing with one another. Below are some group guidelines that will help create a safe environment.

CONFIDENTIALITY: What is said in the group stays in the group.

LISTEN: Let’s value one another during the discussions by really listening to what is being shared. Try to avoid thinking about how you are going to respond or what you are going to say next.

PAUSE: Allow a pause in conversation after someone shares. Give the person sharing a chance to finish and the group the opportunity to consider what was just shared before responding.

NO “CROSS TALK”: Be considerate of others as they are sharing- no side conversations.

NO FIXING: We are not here to fix each other. Jesus does that part. Speak truth is love, give
encouragement, empathize, point to Jesus. You may share solutions God has led you through. The other person should never feel shame or failure, but rather connection & hope.

NO HIJACKING of shared stories.

NO RESCUING: When people are sharing something deeply personal, there can be a tendency to try to make them feel better about themselves or the situation by providing immediate condolences. This will often cause them to stop sharing. Resist the temptation to rescue people.

SHARING: Be sensitive about the amount of time you share.

SILENCE: It is important to allow silence in the group as it provides an opportunity for someone else to share and for members in the group to process the topic or question being considered.

BE SELF-AWARE: Be self-aware of how you are personally affecting the environment through your words, actions, and non-verbal communication.

“I” STATEMENTS: It’s easy to talk about the issues of others, but for our purposes, we want you to put yourself on the table. Try to use “I” statements rather than “them”, "they", "you", “the church”, “us”, “we”, etc.

FIGHT FOR RELATIONSHIP: We will commit to resolve conflict biblically. When conflict or sin issues arise between group members, we want to make sure that we are honoring God and each other in the way we deal with these issues. We will fight for relationship. I will discuss the struggle with the person I am in conflict with first, & if not resolved, seek wise advice. The following are a few key Scriptures in this regard (there are many others.)