April 21st- April 26th Life Group Notes

Following The King- Resurrection Perfection

Matthew 28:1-10, 16-20

LEADERS - Take attendance in the TLC app. Read group guidlines.

Open in Prayer 
  • Welcome/Introductions/Cast Vision - Remind the Life Group of the Guidelines- See bottom of page.

  •  Doing the Mission: Did anyone share Jesus or last week's passage?  

  • Does anyone have a God story? An undeniable encounter or experience with God that creates an impact or breakthrough in your day-to-day life. These moments can be extraordinary or very humble, but always personally powerful. 

  • Opening Question: What do you like to do first thing on Sunday morning?

  • Share background for the passage:  The time in this passage is Sunday morning after the death of Jesus.                                                                                                                                 
  • Thought/Focus:  Jesus has resurrected! How did this affect His followers? How does it affect your life?                                                                                                                              
  • Have someone, or a couple of people, read this week's passage: Matthew 28:1-10, 16-20

Discuss these questions: Go deeper as led. Remember Head, Heart, Hands.
  1. Who was going to the tomb early on Sunday morning? Why were they going?
  2. Who was already at the tomb and what did he have to say to the women?
  3. How did this visitor who was already at the tomb affect the guards?
 4. What were the instructions by this visitor to the women? What was the reaction of the           disciples?
 5. What did the women do upon seeing the resurrected Jesus?
 6. When the men met the resurrected Jesus in Galilee, what was their reaction? What                 would’ve been yours?
 7.  Do you have a hard time believing this is all true? Why, or why not?
 8. What was the commission that Jesus gave to the disciples? Does it apply to you?
 9.  How do you carry out the great commission in your own life?
 Next week's passage/story: Matthew 19:16-26
 Dismiss in Prayer  

Life Group Guidelines

This needs to be a place where people feel comfortable opening up and sharing with one another. Below are some group guidelines that will help create a safe environment.
CONFIDENTIALITY: What is said in the group stays in the group.
 
LISTEN: Let's value one another during the  discussions by really listening to what is  being shared. Try to avoid thinking about  how you are going to respond or what you  are going to say next.
 
PAUSE: Allow a pause in conversation after someone shares. Give the person sharing a  chance to finish and the group the  opportunity to consider what was just  shared before responding.

NO "CROSS TALK": Be considerate of others  as they are sharing- no side conversations.

NO FIXING: We are not here to fix each  other. Jesus does that part. Speak truth is love, give  
encouragement, empathize,  point to Jesus.  You may share  solutions God has led you through. The  other person should never feel shame or  failure, but rather connection & hope.

NO HIJACKING of shared stories.

NO RESCUING: When people are sharing  something deeply personal, there can be a  tendency to try to make them feel better  about themselves or the situation by  providing immediate condolences. This will  often cause them to stop sharing. Resist the  temptation to rescue people.
 
SHARING: Be sensitive about the amount of time  you share.
 
SILENCE: It is important to allow silence in the  group as it provides an opportunity for someone  else to share and for members in the group to  process the topic or question being considered.

BE SELF-AWARE: Be self-aware of how you are  personally affecting the environment through your  words, actions, and non-verbal communication.
 
"I"STATEMENTS: It's easy to talk about the issues  of others, but for our purposes, we want you to put  yourself on the table. Try to use "I" statements rather than "them', "they", "you", "the church", "us", "we", etc.
 
FIGHT FOR RELATIONSHIP: We will commit to resolve conflict  biblically. When conflict or sin issues arise between  group members, we want to make sure that  we are honoring God and each other in the way we  deal with these issues. We will fight for  relationship.  I will discuss the struggle with the person I am in conflict with first, & if not resolved, seek wise advice. The following are a few key Scriptures  in this regard (there are many others.)
  • If someone sins against you: Mat. 18:15-20
  • Restoring someone in sin: Gal. 6:1-5 
  • Forgive a sinner: Col. 3: 12-13 
  • Reconciling differences: Mat. 5:23-24, Mat. 7:1-5 

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